Friendship part II

Part II as a sequal is needed to discribe friendship. Friendship is not to be put in one blog because it means to much to be discribed in a few words. There is a danger in how to use the word friendship and what it truly means.

Truly in friendship is having someone around you who cares about you, who loves you, who accepts you and listens to you, who sticks around not matter what. Who is there in good times and bad times. To share life experiences together. The danger is the intention of the other party in the friendship. True friendship is felt intuitionally, is about love. It feels good or somewhat off if you feel you have to take a step backwards or have the feeling that you have to act against your own being. If this last feeling occures you need to review the friendship and it contents. Is the equality in this friendship there? Are you equal? If the scale is off, then one party is the protecter or leader and the other the follower, the one who only listens and acts. Review here and there the friendship.

When the friendship is for real then you can accept also good advice from the other party in the friendship. This means that you can help the other in giving advice without being offending or abusive in tone and language. Friendship means being there and if needed to guide, this can hurt indeed a lot. Sometimes if you tell someone you love things to protect them from things or habits in life it seems like the other is getting angry, does not accept it, or the words are double hard. If you receive words of advice it also may feel you are hurt badly. If this happens then know that those who love you say this to protect you or guide you into a better direction. If it feels like this then remember the friendship is for real. Somehow we human are better in accepting advice and truth from a third party then our closest ones although we know they mean well. Get over this and accept the words and the sorry for tone or way said. Move on after this.

So friendship in real and friendship in word has different meanings. True friendship comes from the heart, is pleassant most of the times, hurts sometimes but it feels good that someone is around.

Love and light,

Isabel